Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamorous Relationships
Supporting your ENM journey, in all its joy, vulnerability, and unexpected turns
Ethical non-monogamy can be one of the most expansive experiences in a person’s life. It can feel alive, liberating, creative, and deeply fulfilling. For many, it is a way of stepping outside conventional expectations and building relationships that feel more truthful and aligned.
It can also feel incredibly vulnerable. ENM can bring up real emotions, unmet needs, and nervous system triggers. Even the most loving and intentional people may encounter unexpected emotional or logistical challenges, intense feelings they did not anticipate, or situations that become messy quickly. Many people describe moments of deep joy alongside moments that feel confusing, destabilizing, or overwhelming.
My role is to offer a space where all of this is welcome. A space where you can make sense of what is unfolding, understand your needs and capacity, repair what feels broken, and create relationships that feel honest, grounded, and supportive of your well-being.
People come to me when they are:
- Moving from monogamy into ENM and seeking clarity
- Strengthening existing open or poly relationships
- Navigating jealousy, insecurity, or attachment triggers
- Repairing after secrecy, broken agreements, or emotional ruptures
- Managing the complexity of hinge roles, triads, or multi-partner systems
- Exploring identity, capacity, and personal values within ENM
- Untangling difficult dynamics involving Cluster B traits or narcissistic patterns
This is a sex-positive, LGBT- and queer-affirming, kink-informed space.